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As humans we are bound to make mistakes, it is very natural. No one human amongst us has reached the state of perfection. We're all drifting towards perfection. Mistakes are results of errors, poor choices that we have made. Many times we wallow in regrets when we err, we find it difficult to forgive ourselves for our actions. Some people make up their mind never to repeat making same mistakes, some do not care enough to make a decision to thoroughly think things through to avoid more mistakes. Wise people learn from other peoples mistakes and experiences. They do not allow it  happen to them before the grasp the concept of 'thinking things through'. If it happens the first time it's a mistake, the second time we'll say he/she wasnt paying attention, the third time it is no longer a mistake but a CHOICE. You had a choice to choose between making the right descision and making the poor one, and yet you chose the poor one again. Mistakes are costly, it may cost yo...

Growing up as kids there where times we were scolded and our misdeeds where frowned at by our parents and teachers. We always felt bad each time we were rebuked. If you'll agree with me, those scolding actually helped to shape our characters for good today. We owe our parents and teachers gratitude for correcting our mistakes and misdeeds.  As an adult, people will always express their opinions about you whether they be good or bad, It's the society we find ourselves. You will also be criticized for a good deed and for a bad one, the later is usually the one that experiences most criticism. Honestly, It can be offensive and annoying when criticized, no one enjoys being criticized all the time. But you can either learn to accept criticism or you keep sulking in it every time you're criticized.  Wise people will always take advantages of constructive criticism to grow. They have used their critics opinion to constantly measure their performance level, and act accordi...

Either you run the day, or the day runs you. - Jim Rohn

There is this joy that comes with achieving even the smallest feat in life. It is usually inexplicable, as it inspires you to achieve more. For instance you have made a promise to yourself that this week I will abstain from taking soda(coca-cola). Maybe you're gradually becoming addicted to it. Having stayed through the week without taking soda, there is this joy that comes with that achievement. That is the joy of achieving small goals. It is important to set small realistic goals, which maybe; daily, weekly and even monthly. Ask yourself what do I need to achieve this new week? You may decide to read that book that has been lying on your shelve for ages, this week. You can also decide to walk more this week instead of constantly jumping a bike(okada) for some trekkable distances. There is always something to gain when you achieve your set goals. Do not let your week to end without achieving something that will add value to your person. Importance of achieving small goals 1...

When do you intend to make each day count? The bad news is that time flies but the good-news is , you are the pilot of your time. Use it wisely.   Remember timing is everything..

There is a verse of the bible that stated it clearly, "there is a time for everything under the heavens. A time to sow and a time to reap".(Ecclesiastes 3:1-8) Our every day life activities is regulated by time. If you must maximize the hours in a day, you must have well written or mental plans of what you will do or achieve for that day. It is adviceable to make plans for  tomorrows activies today. This plans should also include; what you'll eat and wear for tomorrow. Planning cannot be perfect without timing. Alot of people are carefree about organising their day, they just go with the flow. A wise man makes proper plans for his day, journey, finance, engagements and keeps to the time each of this activities would take place. Failing to plan is planning to fail. You can tell how disciplined, organised and serious someone Is by the way they keep to time and appear for an event. Disorganised, unserious and undisciplined people are always late, clumsy, unprepared, full...