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Encouraging people is also a way of encouraging yourself. Be grateful..........

Life's greatest lessons are gained from our losses, if we approach them the right way. In life sometimes you win. But other times you get knocked down. The key is to figure out why you got knocked down and learn from it, get back up and move forward.

What do you learn when you fail? You hope to win? expect to lose, and live with the results either way. Successful people know how to turn their setbacks into a step forward.

Make today count.......

Some years back while I was still an undergraduate, during one of my exams, I mistakenly submitted my question paper instead of my answer booklet. This is something that has never happend to me before. I had already signed out from the exam hall when I stepped out and saw my mates gathered a few meters close to the exam hall. They were busy arguing about which answer was right or wrong. I was about to join them In the arguement when I tried checking my question paper and discovered that I was with my answer booklet. I quickly rushed back to the exam hall. At the entrance of the exam hall where some of my mates who had also finished writing their exams and were exiting the hall.  I was tensed, nervous and I thought about the consequences of going back into the exam hall with an answer booklet. If caught, I would be penalized and miss an entire semester. My school and faculty generally do not smile at angthing perceived as malpractice.  I developed courage instantly and wal...

  Go be brilliant 

The nasty truth about comparison is that you will never win the game. There will always be someone who is better than you. There will always be people who you will always think they are better than you. When we compare ourselves to others, we are keeping scores. Which means there will be a winner, and a loser. When you win the other loses, and when the other wins, you lose. Comparison isolates us of the opportunity to invest ourselves in others. It ushers in jealousy, addition, depression, and low-self esteem. Nothing is attractive or empowering about these. Comparing ourselves with others or what others have can be destructive. But self-comparisons motivates, corrects, energizes, and empowers. Have a happy weekend. 

Friday Rocks.......

Contentment is relative to some people. There are certain needs or desires that i have achieved  that i can be contented. Some one else may require lots of achievents to be satisfied. contentment doesnt necessarily means fulfillment, but to a great extent you can be contented and still feel fulfilled. Contentment means satisfaction with what you have at any given time. It can still mean, living within your means. Contentment doesnt mean mediocrity as some people may think. You can be contented with what you have, where you work and what you have achieved thus far and still strive to achieve more, but not with desperation. In our societies today, alot of people are not satisfied with the little they have, hence the resort to crime, engage in activities that may endanger their health. Pros of contentment 1. You are at peace with yourself and everyone around you. You're not under any form of pressure to impress anybody. 2. You believe you can achieve more as long as you work int...

Change your attitude According to John C. Maxwell, in his book, ''How successful people win'' trying to  change others is an exercise in futility. He went on to say that anything you try to change that is outside of your control will ultimately disappoint you. I totally agree with him because I have discovered that when I try to change people's unwillingness to grow, I am often filled with disappointment. When I try to change those things outside of my control, I start to lose control of those things within me that I can change because my focus is wrong. John C. Maxwell's solution to this problem is change of attitude. Change of attitude is completely within ones control, and the beauty is that this one change can be a major factor in changing ones live to the positive. In controlling our attitude and choosing to think correctly, we can minimize the negative effect of those around us who have bad attitudes.  Let's learn to stop taking things persona...

Have a nice day

Change yourself If you want to see a positive change in your life, quit looking for a better person or a better world and become a better you. In this life, if you want more, you must be driven to be more. And if changing yourself seems overwhelming, then start with something small. You must also change your attitude.  Embrace change.........

Be Positive........

Let's go be brilliant.

Alot of times we hear people say, "I need to get a new pair of shoe or i need to subscribe my cable tv". The common word in this two statements is need. We also hear people say, "i want to own a big house close to a lake. Or i want to travel round the world". The concept of wants and need has profound effect on our daily life's, since it determines to a great extent what we have to own, do and achieve. Alot of times many people use these words interchangeably, due to their inability to understand this concept very well and how it affects their life's. A need is an urgent requirment for something or a necessity. A want is a desire or wish for something which may not be urgent. Wants can sometimes mean luxuries. Needs are usually basics, what we need for sustainance. The basic human needs are shelter, foods and cloths. That is not to say that we do not need anything other than the three mentioned elements. If we can afford the already mentioned needs and s...

Have a fruitful day................

Consistency is the key to success. It is hard to remain consistency but it is the right thing to do to achieve results-success. The ability to get back in track, bounce back or level-up after distraction is key. I know that many a time we don't feel motivated, but don't be discouraged, it is the reality of life. There is no how we can't achieve our goals if we keep trying. It is important that we have the right attitude. We all have bad days but I advised you don't allow such days  discourage you and rob you of a beautiful tomorrow. I often say to people that when you surround yourself with positive people who inspire you, when you keep learning, when you surround yourself with the right information and have the right attitude, you will find success. So where do you start? start small. If we want to grow, we will have more success by growing in small amount everyday. John C.Maxwell teaches that being inspired and discipline leads to personal development, in his w...

Did you know that consistency doesn't mean that you will never mess up? Consistency means never giving up. Consistency is what transform average into excellence. Success is a slow process, but quitting won't speed it up.  Whatever you do, be true to it. Results may delay but it will come for sure. Trust in you, trust in the process and trust in your light.  I have one long-term goal, to be consistent.

FIND YOUR PURPOSE!!!!!! Put your mind ,heart and soul even into your smallest positive acts. Appreciate yourself. Love yourself and embrace your flaws. be proud of everything you are and will become. It will all make sense someday.

It has been really ............... But that is part of life.