Decide to change your BAD attitude Areas.
I have a friend who deliberately make wrong decisions. He would do things for the moment knowing that they are wrong but would do them anyways. What annoys me the most is that he would in the end vent to me and there by annoying me.
So, one day i was really pissed and i said to him, my dear all your venting and ranting do not work for me anymore. I think you need to work on making the right decisions - you know the positive things to do but you'd prefer to do the negative. Guess what he said to me? ''Juliet, i do not want to do the right things''. Why on earth would someone want to keep doing the wrong thing? My beloved friend doesn't want to change in this area where he has
bad attitude and he has a lot of them.
Many people are like him. There are things in our life we cannot choose, such as who are parents are, our race etc. But your attitude is something you can change. And just about everybody has at least a few areas in their thinking that could use some help or needs change.
Darlings, if you want a better life, then you need to go after those areas. We all want to be better.
Love always
So, one day i was really pissed and i said to him, my dear all your venting and ranting do not work for me anymore. I think you need to work on making the right decisions - you know the positive things to do but you'd prefer to do the negative. Guess what he said to me? ''Juliet, i do not want to do the right things''. Why on earth would someone want to keep doing the wrong thing? My beloved friend doesn't want to change in this area where he has
bad attitude and he has a lot of them.
Many people are like him. There are things in our life we cannot choose, such as who are parents are, our race etc. But your attitude is something you can change. And just about everybody has at least a few areas in their thinking that could use some help or needs change.
Darlings, if you want a better life, then you need to go after those areas. We all want to be better.
Love always
It's one thing to have a bad attitude, and another thing to realize it's "bad" and work conscientiously towards quitting such attitude.
ReplyDeleteAs humans, we more or less have some attitude which, even though we do not perceive as bad, are easily termed bad by people we associate with, whom we believe have our best interests at heart. Friends or associates who are candid enough to point out such attitude are really underrated, and should be overly appreciated.
Taking your friend's case into perspective, it's either he's scared of the outcomes of quitting his bad attitude or he's comfortable in it by the mere reason of you entertaining him whenever he calls. Nonetheless, it takes a lot of courage and self determination to acknowledge, believe, and act out that which is right. Change is the only constant thing.
In an effort to quit learned bad attitude, there must be willingness to unlearn the learnt wrongs and a zeal to relearn the rights, if one must be adorned in a white robe of good attitude.